Had an interesting conversation with the young son today, actually a couple of them. He basically told me that his dad is a liar and a thief. Yeah, it's the truth, but I've never told him my thoughts on that and it shoced me that he said that. He wants to be like his dad so much, I was surprised. I knew that eventually he and the older son would come to these conclusions like their 2 older sisters did, but I sure didn't see it coming today. Next weekend is his birthday party here. Again he surprised me...said that it would be awkward to have a party at his dad's. He's usually so much his dad's cheerleader that him saying that, again, was shocking.

I am of the opinion that shortly both boys will need to make some hard decisions.